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Center Names Brian C. Offutt Board President

I am thrilled to announce the appointment of Brian C. Offutt as the Center’s new Board President. He replaces Mario J. Palumbo, Jr., who served in the role for the past two years.

Brian C. Offutt, Center Board President

Brian C. Offutt, Center Board President

Brian Offutt is the Senior Vice President of Creative Operations for Nickelodeon.  Except for two year stints in Boston and Los Angeles, he has been a resident of New York City since 1987. He previously served on New York City-based not-for-profit boards including The Visiting Nurse Service of NYC, The Kitchen and Urban Bush Women.  He received a master’s degree in business administration and a bachelor’s degree in history from Harvard University.

Brian joined the Center Board initially in 2003 serving until 2005, when his job required him to move to Los Angeles. He rejoined the Center Board in 2008, after his return to NYC.   In 2009, he served as the Co-Chair of the Executive Director Search Committee that identified and recruited me to serve as the Center’s Executive Director.  During 2010 and 2011, he served as the Center’s Treasurer and Finance & Audit Committee Chair.

Brian brings a wealth of experience and expertise to our board, as well as a sincere dedication to preserving and growing our life-changing programs and services.  I am extremely excited to work side by side with him to guide the Center’s vital work.

Brian joins fellow members of the Executive Committee including: Board Co-Chair’s, H. Gwen Marcus and Paul Gruber along with Board Treasurer, Tim Chow and At-Large Members, Tom Kirdahy and Jim Anderson.

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Recapping Recent Center Share-a-Thon

Guest Post by Donald Conrad

The Center hosted the Fire Island Share-a-Thon, the long-running annual meet-and-greet for those looking to nab a summer beach house share on the island..  Over twenty agents were on hand offering great properties, including a major real estate company offering a range of properties on the island.  By 7pm the room was packed with enthusiastic people hoping to secure their ticket out of the city this summer.

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As many know, fire destroyed several businesses last November, including the Pavilion, the island’s premier nightclub.  Just this month, property owners selected the architectural firm, Diller Scofidio + Renfro, whose recent high-profile commissions include the High Line and the redesign of Lincoln Center, to rebuild with an ambitious set of plans.  However, since construction cannot be completed until the 2013 season, they also announced that a temporary nightclub would be built for this season.

So how does this affect property rental for this season?  Most of the agents indicated that the fire would actually have little, if any, effect.  In fact, even with the economy, many agents said that they were ahead of last year in filling up vacancies.

And, what will the loss of so much of the business district have on the vacationing experience?  One agent offered the following assessment, “No matter what the circumstances, the boys will always party!”  Another said he has already heard of many house parties in the planning stages and that this season could actually be unique because house parties usually make it easier to get to know others on the island.

There was a range of offerings available to suit almost anyone’s needs and bank account.  So congratulations to those who locked down a deal – and for those who haven’t, don’t miss the next Share-a-Thon on Thursday, February 23rd.

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Scott Pasfield Shows What It Means to be “Gay In America”

“I like to see a man proud of the place in which he lives. I like to see a man live so that his place will be proud of him.” – Abraham Lincoln

Scott Pasfield’s just released book Gay In America should make a lot of places proud. Pasfield traveled for more than three years, logging more than 54,000 miles, as he chronicled the lives of gay men. One hundred forty portraits appear in the book and each state in the union is represented at least once. Pasfield was at The Center on October 17 as part of the Center Author Series to discuss the creation of the book and share the stories of some of the men featured.

The idea for the book came to Pasfield at a time he was looking for a project to rekindle his passion for photography. “I needed a personal project that would speak from my heart,” he told the audience. “The media has a way of portraying gay men and I knew there was more to us than that.”

To achieve the goal of showing as many variations as possible, he posted ads on Craigslist and other sources in an effort to find men who would tell their stories. He said there was a mating dance that would occur as men would contact him. “There was a trust that happened, gay man to gay man,” he said.

Some of the men profiled in the book where in attendance at The Center: Manny & Brian, from Patterson, NJ whose photo was the alternate cover choice for the book; Chip and Gabriel from New York City; and Lt. Dan Choi, who was the final cover choice for the book.

“He is one of the best advocates out there,” says Pasfield of Choi. “It’s an honor to have him on the cover. He came out in a big way and he hasn’t stopped yet.”

Stories that Pasfield shared during his presentation included:

    Steven from Miami, who was so comfortable in his skin as a teenager, that the therapist his parents took him to called him the most well adjusted teen he’d ever met.
    David from Snellville, Georgia, wrote about his partner’s children trying to figure out what to call him. Since he stayed home with the kids, they settled on “mommy with a beard” as his name.
    Henry, Scott and Henry’s son Cameron from Minneapolis, provide one of the sadder stories of the book. Henry is a cancer survivor and Cameron had brain cancer. Their photo shoot was postponed because Henry and Scott were scheduled to be married on a cruise, and Cameron very much wanted to be at the wedding. Two weeks later, the shoot took place and Cameron was so weak, Henry and Scott kept Cameron upright between them. Cameron passed away five weeks later and, a few months after that, Henry and Scott broke up. Pasfield convinced Henry to keep the story and image in the book because Cameron had felt so strongly about the project. It’s also a story that shows that gay families can go through the very same tragedies that everyone else does. This is also the only story that was allowed to be updated in the book; everything else is frozen as a moment in time just as the photographs are.
    Jakoury from Chester, West Virginia, was encouraged by his father to learn how to defend himself. In 10th grade that came in handy when he was bullied and preceded to knock the bully out. He ended up gaining respect and starting a gay/straight alliance in the school.

Pasfield says he became an accidental activist because of the book. “If more people took their passion and used it to better their community, the world would change. We all have to do what we can.”

There is some controversy since the book focuses only on men, but Pasfield points out there is no word that signifies “gay men” as there is for lesbians. He hopes someone does a book on lesbians (he’s considered it himself but he’s not sure he could do the topic justice), transgender people and bisexual people. He firmly believes, “to study each group individually gives them the attention they deserve.”

Meanwhile, he hopes the attention focused on Gay in America can secure funding to allow him to do further volumes since there are so many diverse stories across the country.

You can find out more about Gay in America, and see the video Pasfield showed at the start of his discussion, at gayinamerica.us.

By Jeff Adams

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Pioneer Activist Frank Kameny Dies at 86

LGBT Pioneer Activist Frank Kameny

LGBT Pioneer Activist Frank Kameny

The Center learned tonight that our community had lost a giant in the LGBT movement for full equality. Frank Kameny died in his home this evening in Washington, DC, fittingly on National Coming Out Day. He was 86.

Dozens of media outlets have published stories about Kemeny’s passing, including Metro Weekly, which reported:

”It is with great sadness that I must report the death of Dr. Franklin Kameny, an activist and friend of the LGBT community,” Metropolitan Police Department Capt. Edward Delgado wrote in an email to media outlets on Oct. 11.

Speaking about 8 p.m. Oct. 11 from Kameny’s home, a designated historic landmark, Charles Francis confirmed that Kameny died in his bed and that his body was being removed. Others on the scene included Bob Witeck. Both Francis and Witeck were part of the effort to have Kameny’s personal papers installed in the Library of Congress.

Marvin Carter, board member of the organization Helping Our Brothers and Sisters, which aided Kameny, says he was contacted by Kameny’s housemate about 5:30 p.m. Oct. 11 and given the news that he had discovered Kameny’s body.

”It appears to have been of natural causes,” says Carter.

Kameny’s beginnings in advocacy work came after he was fired from his job as an astronomer for the Army Map Service because he was gay in 1957. He challenged the firing, though, and took the case all the way to the U.S. Supreme Court. Although the court declined to hear the case, an activist was born.

Kameny went on to become one of the leading advocates for lesbian and gay equality in the years before — and since — Stonewall. In 1961, he co-founded the Mattachine Society of Washington. In 1965, he and others with the group famously picketed the White House in shirts and ties, sending a letter to the White House explaining their presence.

Along with Barbara Gittings, Kameny successfully worked with experts in the field and others to convince the American Psychiatric Association to remove homosexuality from its list of disorders in 1973. The next year, he and Gittings served as counsel to Otis Fancis Tabler, Jr., successfully keeping the Defense Department employee from having his security clearance revoked due to being gay.

Witeck talked with Metro Weekly on Oct. 11 after returning from Kameny’s house, saying, ”When I was in high school 43 years ago – there’s nothing, nothing. No internet. Library books were atrocious. The only thing I knew was Frank Kameny’s name, from the newspapers, and the Mattachine Society. And I called the Mattachine Society, and I didn’t know it at the time – but that was Frank.

”Frank was the first gay person I spoke to in all of my life,” he says. ”And I wasn’t the only one with the story.”

Despite the many victories for equality of which Kameny was a part since, it wasn’t until June 24, 2009, that he received a formal apology from the government for his firing. In a letter that called the firing ”a shameful action,” the director of the Office of Personnel Management wrote to him, ”Please accept our apology for the consequences of the previous policy of the United States government, and please accept the gratitude and appreciation of the United States Office of Personnel Management for the work you have done to fight discrimination and protect the merit-based civil service system.”

The director, John Berry, is an out gay man and the highest ranking out LGBT official in the Obama administration.

Kameny’s death was noted quickly and felt widely across the LGBT community.

Rick Rosendall, who knew Kameny for the past 33 years through their work with the Gay and Lesbian Activists Alliance, told Metro Weekly, ”Frank was a force of nature. His level of courage and ferocity in standing up for his principles was amazing at a time when he had no backups.”

In his email, Delgado noted, ”Dr. Kameny is a friend of the Metropolitan Police Department’s Gay and Lesbian Liaison Unit; which he advised during it’s infancy stage. My condolences go out to the Kameny family and the entire LGBT community.”

Richard Socarides, who served as the lesbian and gay liaison to President Clinton, told Metro Weekly, ”Frank was such a brave person. To do what he did when he did it. A shinning example for us all. An amazing, inspirational figure who stands out among the giants of our movement.”

On June 10, 2010, a crowd gathered on 17th Street NW for the unveiling of the street sign naming the stretch of the street between R and Q Streets ”Frank Kameny Way NW.

A little more than six months later, Kameny was present for another landmark moment – the signing of the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Repeal Act. The World War II veteran told Metro Weekly he was overjoyed to be attending because, as he said, ”I didn’t think I’d live to see it.”

Human Rights Campaign president Joe Solmonese noted in a statement, ”From his early days fighting institutionalized discrimination in the federal workforce, Dr. Kameny taught us all that ‘Gay is Good.’ As we say goodbye to this trailblazer on National Coming Out Day, we remember the remarkable power we all have to change the world by living our lives like Frank — openly, honestly and authentically.”

Witeck echoed that, saying, ”Frank also, truly, truly, was a lifelong lesson in being principled. It’s just an amazing gift – and an annoying gift. All of us have doubts; Frank didn’t have a one. If he did, he didn’t tell anyone.”

Talking about Berry’s role at OPM, the repeal of DADT and other successes of recent years, Witeck says, ”Every single thing that we have touched, Frank had been there before.”

A public memorial will be held, Witeck told Metro Weekly, noting that Nov. 15 is the 50th anniversary of the Mattachine Society of Washington and that, accordingly, plans were being considered to hold the memorial that day. He noted, though, that Kameny often said that he did not want a religious ceremony and that, as such, it would not be religious and would be held in a public place.

The Center joins the entire LGBT community in mourning the loss of this true legend in our movement.

 

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Mourning the Loss of LGBT Advocate Paula Ettelbrick

Paula Ettelbrick

The Center is saddened to learn that our community has lost a tireless leader in the LGBT movment for full equality. Paula Ettelbrick died of cancer today.

She most recently served as the Executive Director of the Stonewall Community Foundation, which released this statement:

Paula Ettelbrick, a pioneering LGBTQ rights crusader and immediate past Executive Director of the Stonewall Community Foundation, died this morning, Friday, October 7, 2011 surrounded by friends and family after a heroic battle with ovarian cancer. 

 

As a lifelong advocate for LGBTQ people across the globe, Paula will always be remembered for her leadership roles at Lambda Legal, the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission and the Stonewall Community Foundation.  

 

Paula, Stonewall’s first female Executive Director, launched Out In Front New York, a comprehensive training initiative for LGBTQ non-profit leaders and board members, and laid the groundwork for the Foundation’s newest giving circle, Stonewall Professional Alliance, a program which combines monthly giving with community service.  Paula championed expanding programming and reaffirming the role of the Stonewall Community Foundation as a thought leader for New York City’s LGBTQ community.  In the words of Matthew Ryan, Stonewall Community Foundation President of the Board of Directors, “Paula Ettlebrick has been a champion for our community for decades. Stonewall benefitted tremendously over the past year from her historic perspective and her unique talent in bringing people together. Both the Stonewall membership and the New York City LGBTQ organizations that Stonewall supports offer our deepest condolences to her family and friends.”      

 

Paula spent her life working to address the critical issues facing the LGBTQ community.  From 1986 through 1993, Paula was an early staff attorney and Legal Director at Lambda Legal.  Paula’s leadership in working to reform family policy law led to significant strides for LGBTQ families across the country and helped make Lambda Legal the nation’s leading LGBTQ legal advocacy group.  After Lambda Legal, Paula held positions at the National Center for Lesbian Rights, the Empire State Pride Agenda and the National Lesbian and Gay Task Force.  At the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission, Paula served as Executive Director from 2003 to 2009 and challenged human rights abuses and discrimination worldwide.  Paula taught courses on the law and sexuality at Barnard, Columbia Law School, the University of Michigan Law School, New York University School of Law and Wayne State University.   As a professor and widely cited author, Paula’s significant contribution to feminist and queer academia promises to continue inspiring students for generations to come. 

 

In late August, Paula announced she’d be stepping down from her post as Executive Director at Stonewall due to her ongoing battle with cancer.  In the words of Interim Executive Director, Richard Burns, “There are countless LGBTQ citizens around the world whose lives are better today because of Paula.  Paula was a passionate and powerful advocate for all LGBTQ New Yorkers and a true friend.  At Stonewall, we’re grateful for all she did for the foundation and we’ll miss her greatly.”    

 

A memorial service will be announced at a later date. 

 The Center sends its heartfelt condolences to the family and friends of Paula Ettelbrick.

 

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A Wedding Gift from ESquared Hospitality and the Center!

ESquared

If you’re planning on getting hitched, ESquared Hospitality is offering a 20% discount on wedding-related events at all New York restaurants.

The offer is valid for parties of 10 or more through December 1, 2011 and some restrictions may apply.

To plan a celebration, contact Julie at JULIE@BLTRESTAURANTS.COM or (212) 752-4411.

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Center Reflects on 9/11 in Advocate Article

9-11

As New Yorkers mark the 10-year remembrance of 9/11, read the Advocate’s reflection on how the tragedy impacted the LGBT community; the article includes poignant insignts from Executive Director Glennda Testone, about the Center’s role in helping New Yorkers that day and beyond.

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Attention Members! Center Closed August 27-28 Due to Hurricane Irene

In accordance with directives from the NYC Office of Emergency Management, and given the planned MTA service shutdown beginning at Noon Saturday, the Center will be CLOSED both Saturday and Sunday, August 27-28. We will reopen on Monday under favorable weather conditions and once the MTA resumes NYC Transit services.

Irene

All Center users and visitors are encouraged to closely monitor the development of Hurricane Irene and to consult this webpage for further updates on the Center’s hours of operation for Monday, August 29th.

For public transit information:

MTA NYC Buses, Subways, LIRR and Metronorth
www.mta.info

NJ PATH
www.panynj.gov/path/

NJ Transit
www.njtransit.com

To track the progress of Hurricane Irene:

The Office of Emergency Management
www.nyc.gov/oem

T he Weather Channel
www.weather.com

1010 Wins Radio
www.1010wins.com

NY1
www.ny1.com

WABC
www.7online.com

WCBS
www.newyork.cbslocal.com

WNBC
www.wnbc.com

MSBNC
www.msnbc.com

Preparation for Hurricane Irene

The NYC Office of Emergency Management urges New Yorker’s to find out if they live in a hurricane evacuation zone and take steps to prepare for heavy rain, storm surge and strong winds. Make sure your emergency supply kits are well stocked and ready to go with supplies like water, non-perishable food, a first aid kit, flashlights, a battery-operated radio, and extra batteries. For information on how to prepare, go to www.nyc.gov/oem.

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Center and Braking the Cycle Ring NASDAQ Stock Market Closing Bell

Glennda Testone and Braking the Cycle riders at NASDAQ Stock Market Closing Bell
On Monday, August 8, the Center’s Executive Director, Glennda Testone along with Center staff and members of Braking the Cycle, had the distinct honor of ringing the closing bell of the NASDAQ Stock Market.  Braking the Cycle is the 285-mile bike ride from Boston to New York, which benefits the Center’s HIV/AIDS Services. This year will mark the event’s 9th year and many riders were on hand at the NASDAQ on Monday to showcase the importance of the ride and raise awareness about the continued fight against HIV/AIDS.

Glennda Testone at the NASDAQ Stock Market Closing Bell Ceremony

As Glennda stressed in her remarks before the closing bell “After almost 30 years into the epidemic, HIV/AIDS continues to be a major health issue in the United States and around the world. As the New York Times reported just last week, the Center’s for Disease Control released new figures showing that ‘despite years of great progress in treating AIDS, the number of new HIV infections has remained stubbornly around 50,000 a year in the United States for a decade… and the American epidemic is growing rapidly worse among young black gay men.’”

Glennda went on to highlight the myriad of services the Center provides to those living with or affected by HIV/AIDS. We have been at the forefront of providing services in the fight against AIDS since our founding in 1983. Tens of thousands of New Yorkers with HIV or AIDS have benefited from our help. Each year The Center provides more than 1,800 counseling and group sessions to people living with and affected by HIV and AIDS. More than 1,000 LGBT youth and young adults attend HIV prevention activities and leadership training.  Thousands more attend educational forums and conferences.

Although the market was experiencing a major downfall the day we visited, The Center and Braking the Cycle were thrilled to have the NASDAQ platform to raise visibility and remind the American public that there’s still a long road ahead to the end of AIDS, and we intend to stay on the path and keep riding until we reach that end.

Glennda Testone and Braking the Cycle riders at the NASDAQ Stock Market Closing Bell Ceremony

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Center Wedding Reception Pays Tribute to Marriage Equality in New York

Post by Kaden Freeman, Center Communications Intern

TJ Sengel Photography

TJ Sengel Photography

On Sunday, July 24, love was in the air as newlywed same-sex couples from across the city arrived at the Center to celebrate their weddings at our community reception. In total, 350 people attended, including couples and their guests; the event featured dancing, drinks, cake, and joyful spirits.

TJ Sengel Photography

TJ Sengel Photography

Guests cheered for couples as they entered the room, and some gave toasts as music and laughter filled the Center’s halls. City Council Speaker Christine Quinn gave a moving speech, and State Senator Tom Duane, who helped push the Marriage Equality Act through the State Senate, greeted the enthusiastic crowd.

TJ Sengel Photography

TJ Sengel Photography

The Event was co-sponsored by Freedom to Marry, the Human Rights Campaign, Empire State Pride Agenda and the Transgender Legal Defense & Education Fund.

TJ Sengel Photography

TJ Sengel Photography

LGBT activist Lt. Dan Choi also made a visit to the reception, as did actor George Takei and his husband Brad Altman.

TJ Sengel Photography

TJ Sengel Photography

Thanks to generous donations from local businesses and individuals in the community, the event was free to all who attended. Huge thank you to Park Avenue Catering, A New York Gay Wedding.com, Sugar Couture, Buttercup Bake Shop, Butter Lane Cupcakes, Levy Lighting NYC, Wily Jack, Rokk Vodka, The Foundry, Mark Rose, Ice Sculpture Designs, Ben & Jerrys Ice Cream, Dirty Sugar Live, TJ Sengel Photography and DJ Ted Snowdon!!

TJ Sengel Photography

TJ Sengel Photography

The Center would like to congratulate all newlywed same sex couples, and wish everyone the best during this momumental time in our movement for equality. Your can view more photos here.

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