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Center Announces Plans for 2012 AIDS Ride!

As we approach our 18th year riding to fight HIV and AIDS, we know this year will surpass all others. Over the past nine years, our riders have traversed the east coast, whether north from Pennsylvania or south from Boston, rain or shine, all in an effort to raise vital funds for the Center’s diverse HIV/AIDS related services and programming. We are immensely grateful for their support and participation all along the way.

As we embark on our 2012 Ride, change is in the air. We are in the selection process for a new producer, and getting on with the business of recruiting riders and crew for our 2012 event. The Center’s Ride will go on, with exciting opportunities on the horizon – a new name, new ideas and new perspectives, improved fundraising and training support, and the chance to enhance and strengthen the overall experience for everyone. We want each and every one of you to come on this journey with us, and we know it’s going to be an amazing ride!

Our clients are our number one priority and we must continue providing HIV/AIDS related programs and services at an even greater capacity. This announcement comes at a time of great urgency for the Center. Public funding for HIV/AIDS has fallen drastically and the vast need for our programming continues to climb. Improving the Center’s AIDS Ride is a vital first step to ensuring we have enough resources to sustain and enhance the programs and services we provide to the people who need us most.

The name of the Ride may be changing, but our commitment to ending HIV/AIDS will never change. The people involved with this Ride over the last 17-years are our extended family and we take that very seriously. We are committed to making this year’s Ride and all future rides as magical as always.

The Center’s AIDS Ride is set for September 21- 23, 2012. You can sign up for the Ride on our website, and please join us on Monday, April 16th for our 2012 Ride Kick-off Party at the Center!

And, don’t forget to mark your calendar for Boston to New York, September 21-23, 2012!

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429Brunch Set to Benefit the Center

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Guest Post by dot429

LGBT social network dot429 is excited to be partnering with The Center, which will serve as the beneficiary of the upcoming 429BRUNCH at the Tribeca Grand Hotel, on Sunday, March 11 from noon to 3 PM.

Beneficiaries are a vital part of dot429’s in person events, as we believe the LGBT community is one which loves to give back, and we support the philanthropic spirit of our members through our own giving. Dot429 has a long history with the Tribeca Grand, which is a beautiful space that has hosted a number of brunches for us in the past, and is the home of our annual StraightTalk conference.

Dot429 is the largest LGBT social network with a database of over 60,000 professionals across the United States who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and allies of the gay community. The site connects people to one another with the intent of enriching both their careers and lives.

In March, dot429 will be launching a number of new features, including a Jobs Board curated to highlight employers looking for LGBT candidates; a complete redesign of 429Magazine meant to bring our audience more content in a more streamlined and beautiful way; and more events across the country to bring the community together.

Click here to purchase tickets to the 429BRUNCH.

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Inside the Center’s LGBT SmokeFree Project

Guest Post by Rob ZukowskiLGBT_StopSmoke_next_hp_final

If you have ever tried to quit smoking, or had a friend or loved one who has taken on the task of giving up smoking, you know that it is not an easy undertaking. Having been a smoker for many years, and having gone through the trials and tribulations of quitting, only to return to smoking and struggle to quit again, I can attest to difficulty of reaching the goal of being smoke free.

The good news is that help was available to me. What’s better? It’s available to YOU! There are a plethora of quality services available to you. You can make phone calls to quit lines for information and you can sign up for a variety of web based services, but for LGBT and allied individuals there is another option in Manhattan’s West Village.

The LGBT SmokeFree Project, a program of the Community Services department of The Center, offers workshops and classes specifically designed to provide the support, tools and information you need to flick that very last cigarette to the curb and walk away happier, healthier and free of the financial impact that goes hand in hand with the habit.

Since 1993, The LGBT SmokeFree Project at the Center has been dedicated to helping members of the community quit smoking for good. It’s more than just another pamphlet with the same old Q&A you’ve seen before. It’s more than just a lecture. What you encounter at these classes are people like you; LGBT and allied people with the drive and desire to quit smoking and stay quit. And the best part of all, is that these people are there to share their experiences and learn from yours; it’s an exercise in giving and receiving the support smokers need to take on the task. You become a part of a collective unit of “quitters”. I can say, without question or reservation, that I have been both moved and inspired by the accomplishments, struggles and successes of those in my group.

It all begins with Not Quite Ready to Quit. This 3-hour workshop focuses on understanding nicotine addiction, increasing motivation, and eliminating roadblocks to making the decision to quit. Once you have completed the workshop, it is on to the next program – Commit to Quit. The 6-week Commit to Quit group helps you develop a quit plan, build a support system, and effectively handle relapse pressure and stay quit. One session of Not Quite Ready to Quit is required to start the 6-week program.

Adam Steiner, the SmokeFree Project counselor, knows firsthand what quitting smoking is like. Adam’s passion for helping people become smoke free isn’t only professional, it’s personal. He is currently in his 10th year of living smoke free and it shows in his compassion. In a recent article, he said, “I took my first puff of a cigarette at age 8. I kept smoking until I was 40 years old. Luckily, I found the strength to quit. Now I spend my days helping others quit.” He goes on to say, “In addition to helping people develop a quit plan, build a support system, and effectively handle relapse pressure once they have quit smoking, the Center also works with The Manhattan Smoke – Free Partnership as a part of the New York City Coalition for a smoke free city.” Adam is a leader for smoke free people of all ages. He, along with Youth Organizers Against Tobacco Advertisement interns, advocate against tobacco marketing that targets young people. Adam is a dedicated counselor with the kind of insight and experience to help you nip your cigarette addiction in the “butt”. Pun intended.

As someone who has attended both the initial workshop and the 6-week program, I would urge you to do so. The experience, in my opinion, goes above and beyond the smoking cessation programs I have tried before. Not only did I find the content unique and being surrounded by other LGBT folks who understand the world I live in to be an extra push, but the camaraderie among group participants was an essential tool.

Imagine what it must be like to wake up on your quit day to find supportive texts or emails from the members of your group. Think about how empowering it can be to have someone reach out to you for support should that moment come when they want to reach for a cigarette.

I know what you are thinking, “does it work?” With your hard work and determination it does. Here are some follow up statements from past group participants.

“It is funny that I just received the email of the center talking about the commit to quit seminar. I quit smoking at The Center five years ago and i always send people to this smoking cessation program.”

“Yesterday, I sent a letter to the board of Directors of the Center and I mentioned this great achievement with the help of you guys. Thank you for doing this great job.”

“If you ever need someone that quit with this program to come and talk to the people in the program let me know.”

“I quit smoking in December of 2003. The ONLY reason I was successful THIS TIME, was because of your group.”

“It was non-judgmental – t was done with patience and gentleness. But I have never not smoked for a period of eight years.”

“Thank you all so much for the best program to try and get us to not smoke.”

“Finding out that there was a program available at the center, with other members of the LGBT community was the best thing for me.”

“To have a safe, welcoming environment with professional support staff and leadership, and be among peers was PRICELESS.”

“Because of the center care smoke free program and stern but gentle approach of my counselor, I was ready to take the leap, and free myself. I had the right coping skills (including nicotine patches and proper guidance) and found the whole experience a huge self esteem booster and overwhelming sense of pride.”

“The whole process has changed my opinion on what I would consider a “life-long” habit and for me, choosing smoking will never be that crutch again. This past October, 2011 marked 2 years since I have quit smoking, an accomplishment that after 14 years with the addiction I never thought I would say. I can’t endorse the program enough.”

For more information about upcoming Not Quite Ready to Quit and Commit to Quit Programs, Click Here

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Spring Development Internship Open at the Center

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The NYC Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center is currently accepting new applicants for the spring 2012 internship program in our development/fundraising office. The core areas of focus will include:

•   Support Major Donor and Annual Giving efforts in the processes of prospect   identification and donor research, cultivation, solicitation and stewardship
•   Complete donor research on prospects through software analysis, historical information and public records
•   Assist in planning and supporting smaller home-based events for prospective donors
•   Draft solicitations for potential corporate & foundation partners
•   Assist with gift acknowledgement and renewal process
•   Assist in general development and fundraising events
•   Perform administrative duties, as needed

Requirements: Qualified applicants will be proficient with MS Office suite products – specifically Excel; possess an ability to work independently and maintain an attention to details and project timelines; strong interpersonal skills; and demonstrate excellent written and verbal communication skills. Previous experience with Raiser’s Edge preferred but not required. Knowledge and familiarity of LGBT communities and issues and high sense of responsibility and commitment to the mission of the Center required.

How to Apply: For consideration, submit a cover letter stating desired position with resume by email to jobs@gaycenter.org. Please include “Spring Development Intern” in the subject line. Materials may also be sent via fax (212) 924-2657.

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Center Volunteer Appreciation Event

Guest Post by Rob Zukowskivol_app

On Wednesday, February 1st the Center held its volunteer appreciation event. Kate Shaffer, the Center’s Volunteer Coordinator, organized this amazing gathering as a thank you to the many who give so much of themselves and their time in support of their community.

Having had the privilege, some years ago, to serve as the manager of the Center’s volunteer program myself, I was thrilled to see so many people enjoying the much deserved festivities. More than 100 guests, all hard-working Center volunteers, were in attendance. They enjoyed an assortment of hors d’oeuvres from the buffet table, complimentary cocktails, and danced to music by DJ Dan Darlington. A portion of the delightful delicacies were kindly donated by Los Charritos and the event design was generously provided by Roy Braeger.

Executive Director, Glennda Testone took to the stage to thank the honored guests for their hard work, dedication and commitment to Center stating, “This event is a small token of appreciation, and couldn’t even begin to match our gratitude for the exceptional contributions Center volunteers make every day.” Exceptional is right. Center volunteers make great things happen. In 2011 volunteers donated over 13,500 hours of service to 142 events and raised well over $1 million to support the Center’s programs.

Who staffed the event, you may be wondering? I am happy to say that Center staff members, from every department, volunteered their time to make this event happen and happily gave their time back to those who give so often. Yojani Hernandez, Cultural Programs Officer at the Center, was among the staff turned volunteer that night. “It was really great to support the Volunteer Appreciation event,” she said.  “With all the events and projects that volunteers make possible at the Center it felt fantastic to give a little back. We all know that nothing happens at the Center without volunteer support.”

The room was filled with an array of folks from new volunteers to long time volunteers. Six notable such individuals have been volunteering their time at the Center ranging from 10 to 22 years. I was delighted to run into a volunteer who worked for me on NYC Pride events a number of years ago. He told me, “I love the Center. Even if I can’t give as much time as I used to, I still always give what I can. I think every little bit helps.” And he’s right. Whether you can provide an hour, a week, a month or 22 years, volunteers are the heart of the Center.

The next time you drop by the Center, look around you – no matter where you go or what time of day or night it may be, it’s guaranteed that you will run into someone who is unselfishly giving their time. Volunteers work recurring shifts every day of the week and support every department at the Center.

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Center Applauds Prop 8 Ruling!

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Following news today that California’s Prop 8 has been ruled unconstitutional, the Center issued this reaction:

The Center is thrilled to hear that loving committed same-sex couples in California are one step closer to having the same opportunity for marriage equality that we enjoy here in New York.

Our Center Families team works hard every day to support more than a thousand LGBT people a year in the tri-state area who use our services to build, grow and strengthen their families.

We send a heartfelt congratulations to all those who helped make today’s Prop 8 ruling a reality and send best wishes to all LGBT families in California as they move towards gaining equality under the law.

Learn more about our Center Families Program here, and like us on facebook here.

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Center Names Brian C. Offutt Board President

I am thrilled to announce the appointment of Brian C. Offutt as the Center’s new Board President. He replaces Mario J. Palumbo, Jr., who served in the role for the past two years.

Brian C. Offutt, Center Board President

Brian C. Offutt, Center Board President

Brian Offutt is the Senior Vice President of Creative Operations for Nickelodeon.  Except for two year stints in Boston and Los Angeles, he has been a resident of New York City since 1987. He previously served on New York City-based not-for-profit boards including The Visiting Nurse Service of NYC, The Kitchen and Urban Bush Women.  He received a master’s degree in business administration and a bachelor’s degree in history from Harvard University.

Brian joined the Center Board initially in 2003 serving until 2005, when his job required him to move to Los Angeles. He rejoined the Center Board in 2008, after his return to NYC.   In 2009, he served as the Co-Chair of the Executive Director Search Committee that identified and recruited me to serve as the Center’s Executive Director.  During 2010 and 2011, he served as the Center’s Treasurer and Finance & Audit Committee Chair.

Brian brings a wealth of experience and expertise to our board, as well as a sincere dedication to preserving and growing our life-changing programs and services.  I am extremely excited to work side by side with him to guide the Center’s vital work.

Brian joins fellow members of the Executive Committee including: Board Co-Chair’s, H. Gwen Marcus and Paul Gruber along with Board Treasurer, Tim Chow and At-Large Members, Tom Kirdahy and Jim Anderson.

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Recapping Recent Center Share-a-Thon

Guest Post by Donald Conrad

The Center hosted the Fire Island Share-a-Thon, the long-running annual meet-and-greet for those looking to nab a summer beach house share on the island..  Over twenty agents were on hand offering great properties, including a major real estate company offering a range of properties on the island.  By 7pm the room was packed with enthusiastic people hoping to secure their ticket out of the city this summer.

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As many know, fire destroyed several businesses last November, including the Pavilion, the island’s premier nightclub.  Just this month, property owners selected the architectural firm, Diller Scofidio + Renfro, whose recent high-profile commissions include the High Line and the redesign of Lincoln Center, to rebuild with an ambitious set of plans.  However, since construction cannot be completed until the 2013 season, they also announced that a temporary nightclub would be built for this season.

So how does this affect property rental for this season?  Most of the agents indicated that the fire would actually have little, if any, effect.  In fact, even with the economy, many agents said that they were ahead of last year in filling up vacancies.

And, what will the loss of so much of the business district have on the vacationing experience?  One agent offered the following assessment, “No matter what the circumstances, the boys will always party!”  Another said he has already heard of many house parties in the planning stages and that this season could actually be unique because house parties usually make it easier to get to know others on the island.

There was a range of offerings available to suit almost anyone’s needs and bank account.  So congratulations to those who locked down a deal – and for those who haven’t, don’t miss the next Share-a-Thon on Thursday, February 23rd.

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Scott Pasfield Shows What It Means to be “Gay In America”

“I like to see a man proud of the place in which he lives. I like to see a man live so that his place will be proud of him.” – Abraham Lincoln

Scott Pasfield’s just released book Gay In America should make a lot of places proud. Pasfield traveled for more than three years, logging more than 54,000 miles, as he chronicled the lives of gay men. One hundred forty portraits appear in the book and each state in the union is represented at least once. Pasfield was at The Center on October 17 as part of the Center Author Series to discuss the creation of the book and share the stories of some of the men featured.

The idea for the book came to Pasfield at a time he was looking for a project to rekindle his passion for photography. “I needed a personal project that would speak from my heart,” he told the audience. “The media has a way of portraying gay men and I knew there was more to us than that.”

To achieve the goal of showing as many variations as possible, he posted ads on Craigslist and other sources in an effort to find men who would tell their stories. He said there was a mating dance that would occur as men would contact him. “There was a trust that happened, gay man to gay man,” he said.

Some of the men profiled in the book where in attendance at The Center: Manny & Brian, from Patterson, NJ whose photo was the alternate cover choice for the book; Chip and Gabriel from New York City; and Lt. Dan Choi, who was the final cover choice for the book.

“He is one of the best advocates out there,” says Pasfield of Choi. “It’s an honor to have him on the cover. He came out in a big way and he hasn’t stopped yet.”

Stories that Pasfield shared during his presentation included:

    Steven from Miami, who was so comfortable in his skin as a teenager, that the therapist his parents took him to called him the most well adjusted teen he’d ever met.
    David from Snellville, Georgia, wrote about his partner’s children trying to figure out what to call him. Since he stayed home with the kids, they settled on “mommy with a beard” as his name.
    Henry, Scott and Henry’s son Cameron from Minneapolis, provide one of the sadder stories of the book. Henry is a cancer survivor and Cameron had brain cancer. Their photo shoot was postponed because Henry and Scott were scheduled to be married on a cruise, and Cameron very much wanted to be at the wedding. Two weeks later, the shoot took place and Cameron was so weak, Henry and Scott kept Cameron upright between them. Cameron passed away five weeks later and, a few months after that, Henry and Scott broke up. Pasfield convinced Henry to keep the story and image in the book because Cameron had felt so strongly about the project. It’s also a story that shows that gay families can go through the very same tragedies that everyone else does. This is also the only story that was allowed to be updated in the book; everything else is frozen as a moment in time just as the photographs are.
    Jakoury from Chester, West Virginia, was encouraged by his father to learn how to defend himself. In 10th grade that came in handy when he was bullied and preceded to knock the bully out. He ended up gaining respect and starting a gay/straight alliance in the school.

Pasfield says he became an accidental activist because of the book. “If more people took their passion and used it to better their community, the world would change. We all have to do what we can.”

There is some controversy since the book focuses only on men, but Pasfield points out there is no word that signifies “gay men” as there is for lesbians. He hopes someone does a book on lesbians (he’s considered it himself but he’s not sure he could do the topic justice), transgender people and bisexual people. He firmly believes, “to study each group individually gives them the attention they deserve.”

Meanwhile, he hopes the attention focused on Gay in America can secure funding to allow him to do further volumes since there are so many diverse stories across the country.

You can find out more about Gay in America, and see the video Pasfield showed at the start of his discussion, at gayinamerica.us.

By Jeff Adams

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Pioneer Activist Frank Kameny Dies at 86

LGBT Pioneer Activist Frank Kameny

LGBT Pioneer Activist Frank Kameny

The Center learned tonight that our community had lost a giant in the LGBT movement for full equality. Frank Kameny died in his home this evening in Washington, DC, fittingly on National Coming Out Day. He was 86.

Dozens of media outlets have published stories about Kemeny’s passing, including Metro Weekly, which reported:

”It is with great sadness that I must report the death of Dr. Franklin Kameny, an activist and friend of the LGBT community,” Metropolitan Police Department Capt. Edward Delgado wrote in an email to media outlets on Oct. 11.

Speaking about 8 p.m. Oct. 11 from Kameny’s home, a designated historic landmark, Charles Francis confirmed that Kameny died in his bed and that his body was being removed. Others on the scene included Bob Witeck. Both Francis and Witeck were part of the effort to have Kameny’s personal papers installed in the Library of Congress.

Marvin Carter, board member of the organization Helping Our Brothers and Sisters, which aided Kameny, says he was contacted by Kameny’s housemate about 5:30 p.m. Oct. 11 and given the news that he had discovered Kameny’s body.

”It appears to have been of natural causes,” says Carter.

Kameny’s beginnings in advocacy work came after he was fired from his job as an astronomer for the Army Map Service because he was gay in 1957. He challenged the firing, though, and took the case all the way to the U.S. Supreme Court. Although the court declined to hear the case, an activist was born.

Kameny went on to become one of the leading advocates for lesbian and gay equality in the years before — and since — Stonewall. In 1961, he co-founded the Mattachine Society of Washington. In 1965, he and others with the group famously picketed the White House in shirts and ties, sending a letter to the White House explaining their presence.

Along with Barbara Gittings, Kameny successfully worked with experts in the field and others to convince the American Psychiatric Association to remove homosexuality from its list of disorders in 1973. The next year, he and Gittings served as counsel to Otis Fancis Tabler, Jr., successfully keeping the Defense Department employee from having his security clearance revoked due to being gay.

Witeck talked with Metro Weekly on Oct. 11 after returning from Kameny’s house, saying, ”When I was in high school 43 years ago – there’s nothing, nothing. No internet. Library books were atrocious. The only thing I knew was Frank Kameny’s name, from the newspapers, and the Mattachine Society. And I called the Mattachine Society, and I didn’t know it at the time – but that was Frank.

”Frank was the first gay person I spoke to in all of my life,” he says. ”And I wasn’t the only one with the story.”

Despite the many victories for equality of which Kameny was a part since, it wasn’t until June 24, 2009, that he received a formal apology from the government for his firing. In a letter that called the firing ”a shameful action,” the director of the Office of Personnel Management wrote to him, ”Please accept our apology for the consequences of the previous policy of the United States government, and please accept the gratitude and appreciation of the United States Office of Personnel Management for the work you have done to fight discrimination and protect the merit-based civil service system.”

The director, John Berry, is an out gay man and the highest ranking out LGBT official in the Obama administration.

Kameny’s death was noted quickly and felt widely across the LGBT community.

Rick Rosendall, who knew Kameny for the past 33 years through their work with the Gay and Lesbian Activists Alliance, told Metro Weekly, ”Frank was a force of nature. His level of courage and ferocity in standing up for his principles was amazing at a time when he had no backups.”

In his email, Delgado noted, ”Dr. Kameny is a friend of the Metropolitan Police Department’s Gay and Lesbian Liaison Unit; which he advised during it’s infancy stage. My condolences go out to the Kameny family and the entire LGBT community.”

Richard Socarides, who served as the lesbian and gay liaison to President Clinton, told Metro Weekly, ”Frank was such a brave person. To do what he did when he did it. A shinning example for us all. An amazing, inspirational figure who stands out among the giants of our movement.”

On June 10, 2010, a crowd gathered on 17th Street NW for the unveiling of the street sign naming the stretch of the street between R and Q Streets ”Frank Kameny Way NW.

A little more than six months later, Kameny was present for another landmark moment – the signing of the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Repeal Act. The World War II veteran told Metro Weekly he was overjoyed to be attending because, as he said, ”I didn’t think I’d live to see it.”

Human Rights Campaign president Joe Solmonese noted in a statement, ”From his early days fighting institutionalized discrimination in the federal workforce, Dr. Kameny taught us all that ‘Gay is Good.’ As we say goodbye to this trailblazer on National Coming Out Day, we remember the remarkable power we all have to change the world by living our lives like Frank — openly, honestly and authentically.”

Witeck echoed that, saying, ”Frank also, truly, truly, was a lifelong lesson in being principled. It’s just an amazing gift – and an annoying gift. All of us have doubts; Frank didn’t have a one. If he did, he didn’t tell anyone.”

Talking about Berry’s role at OPM, the repeal of DADT and other successes of recent years, Witeck says, ”Every single thing that we have touched, Frank had been there before.”

A public memorial will be held, Witeck told Metro Weekly, noting that Nov. 15 is the 50th anniversary of the Mattachine Society of Washington and that, accordingly, plans were being considered to hold the memorial that day. He noted, though, that Kameny often said that he did not want a religious ceremony and that, as such, it would not be religious and would be held in a public place.

The Center joins the entire LGBT community in mourning the loss of this true legend in our movement.

 

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